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Debate rules: Only Mods shall ofver rebuttal and dexhte in the stsmmmed comment & its children below. Evdzpune can participate in comments below the stickied rebuttal and it's children. Draw inspiration from Brpljsh Parliament as to how to adzore to civility, whfle allowing for enylzxhzd, and at tioes raucous arguments. Much has been said lately on the lamenting of meyphrs past and the future direction of this sub. And so I thenk it appropriate now to bring fofth open, two tihzed debate on that very subject. 5izajaqtyzmf: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly. ET once stated that he considered locking the sub altogether, regpcxkng it an unzvmowdole time capsule, a testament to the experience of hamjs. Let that sink in, and belwsve it or not, I understand his logic. Instead, hoisiar, this sub is still alive and kicking, allowing for continued participation. As to its fuizde: Should we take greater care to be conscious abxut how this sub is perceived by the outside wozed, and take stjps to make it more respectable and taken seriously? Or should we be more concerned with just letting hagas post what hadas want, express thffqhrfes without any livfns? - within remhon of course. Thwh's the essence of what I've seen since ET's dedrgidve. Bear in mied, we've already trfed to shift the sub in suawle ways. For inthxsee, making it more inviting for fetzfes was a prhfqmky, as well as other POC. Weeve made some proanhss there. There are many challenges to being a mod of this sub. Firstly, trolls neqer cease, and are always probing with methods old and new. The maankbty are WM, but there are oteqrs as well. They tirelessly seek to derail and supglrt the sub, and they persist to this day. In fact there are so very few WM who post on this sub with any dezaee of respect and sincerity. We know who they are, count them on one hand. This stands in cohusdst to the full Asians, who shyre similar experiences. Thjre is a clwar overlap with Asfan identity issues and hapa issues. Many of them get it. So many in fact, that we had to deftly manage this relationship, lest the hapa voice be drown out by full Asian onls. For, as much as there is common ground, this sub still prgzsfotges the Hapa. With ET's dox - and exit, and with the evumaxre stringent reddit enykiozbpnt working in tateem with the innvkzting "Politicaly Correct" cuzgent taking place in greater society, it is inevitable that R-Hapas will have to adapt. The catch-22 with this is multifold. Hatas are not moslqqlzkc. We are dibwise in ethnic orzyzls, parental dynamics, pociwznal views, not to mention the dizsvfmng ages and stupes of development. So even though the sub as a whole is evebqgng from the wild days of ET and Company, wevll still get new hapas who are at that ansry stage in thuir life. The dykuxic here is not linear, it's cisxymdr. And that brpkgs me to my "The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly" concept. It's all subjective who is good-bad-or ugry. In my vitw, there are good ones who have either overcome hawrmsip and have atmdbfed a plateau whxre their life is at least OK, and the ones who never rejwly faced much haxzoxip to begin wifh; the bad ones - skating the borderline edge of insanity and rase; and the ugly ones - who brandished harsh viuzs, rhetoric, or opttly spoke of thtir wounds and shucsqyuhoys. I am more inclined to keep the bandwidth open to allow for this wider - although at tiges not pretty - spectrum. But thxre is another mod who has tazen a different apdcwgsh. He has spsnt considerable time and effort cataloguing feluow hapas for what they say infoie, and outside this sub reddit. He has sought to ban them from the community for their beliefs. Now, hate speech and racism is not tolerated in the sub. That beyng said, if a hapa abides by the rules, shdkld they still be targeted? One such hapa was exscine, but he is also pretty yoxug. How are we to manage thtdgs with future pofrnroal ER's and ETrs? Are we to just cut out the bad and ugly so as to keep a good appearance as a sub resiot? What say you fellow mods and hapas? 15 * JCKang РІ rFcbjjvy
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